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I’ve been asked: Gay Gang-bang – as a “bottom” what to expect and why do it?

Be under no illusion, performing as a “bottom” in a gay gang-bang is not for the feint hearted; let’s be clear, you’ll often have to endure a marathon session of hard anal penetration with a number of men, so be prepared to end up afterwards with a sore red anal hole, you’d be somewhat naive to think otherwise!; here’s a few guidelines and some advice of what to expect and what is expected of you.

I have been invited to and attended several pre-arranged organised gay gang-bangs; the organiser will typically invite around twelve tops (sometimes more depending on the event and how many bottoms are going to be available to use) expecting less to actually turn up but usually there are at least six participants but more often than not there will be at least ten; the gang-bang organiser will ask and get a few very intimate pictures of you to circulate these around in order to generate interest from potential attendees. The pics of me that are submitted always show me dressed up wearing and posing erotically in lingerie! It seems that my pics of this nature do the trick getting more than sufficient numbers of attendees to respond to an invite and attend! Usually several bottoms are invited to these events in order to ensure that way they always have at least one bottom role performer on offer for the tops to fuck!

What sort of men (tops) come along, where are gang-bangs held and how long does a session go on for?

All ages and sorts really, mixed ethnicity (unless its a specific group of say all black) most are generally over 30 years old, majority are gay or bi-sexual, some are obviously married and I have been to one where it was a small group of shemales and these really do know how to fuck! These gang-bangs are normally held in a private house, usually detached for privacy, it is either owned or lived in by the organiser or sometimes one of the attendees may come forward and make their house available for the meet.

Some basic useful advice:

Preparation is everything; so I always use a dildo or vibrator inserted right up my anal hole for a few hours to help ease it open and relax it, getting my anal hole ready before any gay gang-bang session is important!

If you are the bottom in a gang-bang there is an expectation that you are going to be used and abused and this is true, but that does not mean that you cannot set up some boundaries; so it is not unreasonable to have some sensible basic “rules of engagement” that way everyone knows where they stand.

For example you can ask that each one fucking you does not exceed say half an hour up you, that way everyone gets a fair turn and this also prevents you from getting too sore too early on as that will compromise those at the end of the queue waiting their turn to enjoy their full session of fucking you! Generally most of the men understand that this is only fair for all concerned.

As I always douche my anal hole beforehand so you can ask that they at least wash their penises also before penetration.

If during the session of penetration you may require to stop momentarily to say take a break by signalling putting your hand up; so whichever one is up you at the time this is not an unreasonable request and most will respect this, unless of course they are just about to cumm!

Is the gay gang bang sex always “bareback” unprotected, “no condom”?

Of the three or four gay gang-bangs I was a bottom at it was always that way; usually all participants (including me) are required, or at least asked to provide some sort of confirmation that you are STD and Aids free or alternatively at least on “Prep”, but this is no guarantee that you wont get some sort of STD during sex, so always get tested afterwards.

I have written a blog specifically on “bareback”!

What is the experience like, did you like it, would you do it again, if so why and how long does a typical session last??

If you are expecting gentle “love-making sort of sexual intercourse” experience (although some of the men do like to fuck you more this way) then you’ll likely be disappointed and being a bottom in a gay gang bang is probably not for you; so make no mistake, gang-banging is primarily about the tops enjoying using their penis hard up inside you!

Position wise generally they will want and have you on your back on the bed with your legs either being tied well apart or being held firmly apart by some of the other men who watch while each one takes their turn at fucking you! They like you to be completely vulnerable, unable to resist, entirely at their mercy with your anal hole exposed ready for them and they all want to see your face, reaction and expression change the hole time during penetration while they are fucking you! They will be taking turns at fucking you with only a very short delay likely of no more than around fifteen seconds in between each, as the next one patiently waiting in line for his turn, he will mop the sperm oozing out of your anal hole from the previous top as he dismounts so you are ready for him being the next one inline to mount you! The residue of the previous man’s semen still inside your anal hole helps to ease his penis in!

During anal sex, others will obviously be gathered around the bed on both sides proudly displaying their erect penises right in front of me which they are gently caressing to keep them nice and stiff ready in anticipation for their turn!; some will want me to fondle their penises while waiting their turn, others might climb onto the bed and force their penis down my throat so I’ll be orally sucking their penises, not too much though to get them to squirt prematurely but just enough to keep them moist, aroused ready because they all will always want to sperm my anal hole, its a ritual!

During penetration, while I’m being fucked, banged, screwed, call it what you will, the one who is hard up inside fucking me is likely to grip hold of my penis, or alternatively some of those onlookers waiting might hold onto and play with it; they like to see my penis erect and rub it extremely hard to try and make me cumm, its all about them being in control and my being submissive!

Most of them will take their time as they want as long as possible to enjoy fucking you, usually around twenty minutes or so before they ejaculate; this is why your legs are held firmly apart so that you can’t close them on and squeeze the penis of the one whose is hard up you to force a quicker premature ejaculation! I can usually sense this special moment of their impending orgasm as their rhythm enthusiastically increases and at the moment of squirting their penis thickens as it lets go in several large deep in and out thrusting squirts! So, as one dismounts, a quick mop around my anal hole then the next inline immediately mounts me for his turn. If you are the only bottom and there are ten men fucking you for this session it is going to last pretty much around three hours, a marathon of endurance so it is very likely and expected that your anal hole is going to be a bit red and sore at the end of the session? During anal penetration the onlookers waiting in line for their turn will goad the one who is currently screwing you to fuck you even harder and he will often ask you while he’s hard up inside you, do you like me screwing you, do you want it harder, so do expect lots of dirty talk and verbal abuse, insults, humiliation, name calling such as: gay whore, faggot, sissy bitch, etc throughout the whole session you are being screwed as they encourage each other to be even more vigorous fucking you! In spite of you being used as their paid gay-whore prostitute fuck-toy cum-bucket for a few hours (that’s what you are) most are actually quite polite even during hard penetration and when they’ve finished, some do actually surprisingly thank you for letting them fuck you and some will even genuinely ask if you enjoyed them fucking you; as its a group of men inevitably there is an element of some sort of competition for them to compare as to which one fucked you the longest and hardest and although none of them would admit it, I’m sure that some will have taken Viagra before having sex to enhance and ensure they can maintain a full rock-hard erection for the duration, even after ejaculation! So do expect one or two of them to give you a serious hard screwing if for no other reason that to show off to those around watching their sexual prowess and dominance!

What about Video recording?

It is not unusual that they or some may well want to video all the action, sometimes they ask permission, other times they just expect you to agree to this and if you are tied down securely to the bed you can hardly refuse anyway, so don’t be too surprised!; personally I don’t mind; I recall I was the only bottom at the centre of one particular gang-bang of eight men where there were several video-recorders running the hole time live streaming my being fucked by this group onto Pornhub, so like it or not my whole body, anal hole and face is out there for ALL to see! So you cannot be shy or anonymous in the gay gang-bang world!

In conclusion, if you give them what they want and satisfy them they will always happily pay you and quite rightly so!

So, in answer to: “did you like it, would you do you do it again, if so why”??

Being a bottom in a gay gang bang is a choice, it is simply just having casual nsa sex with multiple partners, letting them use your body for their pleasure without any pretence of any ongoing relationship, ideally and usually not even knowing their names or anything about them, you just want their penises up you, letting them fuck you anonymously!

Some suggest that it’s not really something you should really be proud of but if you have a large sexual appetite then you should be able to have sex with as many people as you like and as often as you want to! So, as long as you are consenting, which if you are there you are after all, who you have sex with and how many people you have sex with is your choice and entirely your own business.

Let’s be clear, by definition, you are as the bottom in a gay gang bang party being promiscuous; having or involving many sexual partners with many transient sexual relationships, not restricted to one sexual partner or a few sexual partners.

Of the gang-bangs I participated in, the subsequent ones only happened after high recommendations from previous events! If you are invited back by the same group again, you’ll find most tops are reasonably considerate during penetration, I do like being the centre of attention and I do just like being screwed by a group of different men taking turns at fucking me!